Stress monkey is a person who behaves like a panicked monkey when placed under minimal stress. It sounds like a soft strawberry to indicate a teenager would become psycho when he placed under a little stress from works or family.
When I suffered stress, I would take a deep breath at the first place. Sometimes, I would eat a lot of snacks or a lot of food to reduce my stress. If I feel stressed, I used to move my body by walking my dogs.
Aspergers
He is 14 years old, used to playing video
games when he was lying over sofa, barely sat straight on chair. He always
ignores people around him and reluctantly answers anybody who asks him
something. He was diagnosed with mild autism, tend to have Asperger’s syndrome,
he has a difficulty with social interactions, hardly to express his own
feelings, or making eye contact.
Few years ago, I remembered he spoke rudely
to his mother about chatting too much with the restaurant owner and then he
could not play lesser time in his mother’s gym. He felt really upset and spoke
it in impolite way. He really did not understand a lot of the social cues like
small talk, or where whose turn to talk next or when to finish talking how long
to talk for what the boundaries. I felt that his social situations really
confusing, he did not how to communicate with strangers.
He is my landlord’s son. He visited his
parents since the summer vacation started from last week. I have a few lunches
with him and his mother, he never asked us to take him to anywhere. Once, I
asked him if he was willing to go to karaoke with him, he gave a concrete
answer. Before I asked for a half day leave, I requested a permission from his
mother, her mother agreed happily. And then, we rode a motorcycle together to
there and we had a good time to sing a lot of songs. After that, he started
willing to share his feelings to me and told me about his secrets sometimes.
For instance, he actually wanted to play bowling but he did not ask his
parents, so I invited them to play together on that night. Or his father would
like to buy a pair of new shoes to him, but he told me the reason why he did
not want to buy a new pair of shoes but he was reluctantly to inform his
father.
There are some improvement ways to make him
better:
1. Because he may have difficulty
understanding language, he may respond better to pictures telling them what is
expected, rather than verbal instructions. Visual countdown chart, when he has
several homework, you could set alarm clock to countdown how long left.
2. Make every words predictable. Set the
routine and keep in mind to keep the things go according to the plan.
3. Legitimately provide positive support to
meet his emotional or behavior needs. Do not yell or threaten, it will not make
behavior better because he will feel anxious, scared, angry, embarrassed, or
sad.
Even though he has returned back to his
home in Pingtung, but I felt that there is a lot of efforts need to be given to
let him come to normal life. Every cloud has a silver lining, because I have
seen a little improvement from him.
Aspergers is a milder syptoms of autism, it may cannot be fully cured. But from early stage treatment intervention, it will lead to normal lives. Fortunately, it does not have development delays impact on his life.
My landlord's son, Jason travel north from the southest of Taiwan, Pingtung, to visit his parents. He grew up rapidly and at the same height with me. However, he become more stern and less talking in words than he was a child. For my opionion, he had a lot of teenager thoughts in mind and remained silent to avoid any bad things happens, who know?
Yesterday, his father took him to ride a new small bicycle. Accidentally, he slipped on the road when turned right at the corner. He had some bruises under his chin and knees. He was brave enough to take the medicine on the wounds without crying and rumblng. From his appearances, I can see he was not happy at all.
Today I bought my landlord's son to sing some songs in Karaoke. It was the first time he went to this place and sang a lot of songs in the noisy room. I was so surprised that he could sing a lot of fast songs individually. Actually he can put it in passion and made him happier in a relaxed way.
As a teenager, he needs some space for himself. Sometimes we cannot understand what he was thinking, and he does not know how to share his feelings as he still news in coping with his emotions. He needs some time to communicate with himself and talk to him instead. We just need wait and will see he is growing. One day, he can fully perceive them and tell us all of this about.
Since the pandemic outbreak, I did not have time to visit my family in Malaysia. My mother and sister were urging me to come back home as soon as possible due to my father healthy crisis.
I have two obligations in my life, an
obligation to my parents and an obligation to myself. I still have a lot of
works to do and establish my professional and personal life. I have my half
life to live in Taiwan. Eventually I find that the perfect time to get to my
life is in Taiwan instead of Malaysia.
Do I need to apologize for difficult times that my parents suffered? I
know that it may be a good excuse for not going home. But how would I feel if
something like my father passed away suddenly? Would I personally regret it?
Then should I make an effort and visit them more often? Even though I regret not visiting enough, but
I know that my father still remembered my best achievement in life before he
had a delirium.
You reap what you sow. As my parents wish
their children went to study or work abroad, they never wish any of their
children live beside them. Here is the consequence of their action they did
during our teenagers towards adults, there have been many instances where the
father or mother has suffered the feeling of separation from children.
For my opinion, it was not too awful. I am
trying to forgive myself because there is a lot of things need to be regretted
in my life.
Before I become atheist, I was feeling like that I had a responsibility to spread the God message to everyone I knew. Due to my Christianity family, I should sacrifice my time, effort, and energy to support my family, friends and communities. I learned how to respect my parents, be obedient, find out love, companionship and forgiveness. They took me to be baptized when I was one-year-old newborn baby. They took us to church, educated us how to pray, how to serve in church, but my parents’ responsibility towards elderly family members was failed. The battle between families always happened and endless to make their relationship was haywire.
Once I realized that I need to donate or give a portion of my savings to the church, I thought it should be a profit organization to attract more money and put them into the pastors’ pocket. Every Sunday we would like to be taught about the purification of our hearts, but they never reflects our reality in the real world. I have never seen anything make me more confident towards God. God never help us even though we were suffering a lot of painful or difficult times.
Some religions definitely can give hope to the weak, the desperate, helpless, but so does science. Medicine can cure a sick, physics tells us how things works well, science can improve our daily quality but how about the bible or the religious book, somehow, they were just destroying many families and always picking a fight about the differences between cultures, morality, religious thinking, and etc. All of us in the earth are sinful, we are not perfect but why people think they are right in their way of thinking?
For my opinion, religion is a personal matter. We should not touch it or force someone down the throats of believers in fairy tales. Instead, we should bring up some concerned topics, including laws, national media, science, schools…
There was a saddening news about the Shinzo Abe has been killed last Friday. The murderer hated the religious party for his mother giving all their family savings to the organization. He deliberately to kill the head of the party but he hardly to close with him. Finally, he changed his plan and revenged on this greatest leader in Japan and shocked the world. It is alleged that the gunman held a grudge against the Japanese former president for religious reasons.
I personally gave a warning to everyone who wants to bring up the topic of religious, it is sure to be a good way to draw a complaint, lose your job, or worsen the relationship between friends. To conclude this, please do not touch the topic of religion.
On 25th Jun, my father was sent home after giving some treatments in hospital for two weeks earlier. The total required expenses around MYR$5000 which including bed charge, medicines, bone marrow examination, diagnostic fees, doctors charges, and etc. The initial diagnostic tend to be the delirium, which including the word " acute confusional state". The trial treatment of antidepressant, epillim, lactulose oral solutions.
Tendency for an elderly person to see their symptoms as a part of the normal aging process, such as glaucoma, leg pain hard to walk, hearing inability, and cognitive impairment. Days by days, he became weaker and thinner, barely to eat food or stand up, he usually sleep on bed and takes a lot of medicine. Basically he needs somebody to bring him up on the chair and cannot eat the hard food, most of them is fluid food.
Thanks to God that my mother is willing to take care of him and asked somebody to cure him by acupuncture. Even though I was afraid of the 88-year-old retired doctor will be easily to get rid of her responsibility if somebody to get hurt, but I still be grateful that my mother was trying to help him.
When I was a student in pre-university school in 2009, I visited my family in winter vacation. My family took me to travel around Thailand. We drove to Bukit Kayu Hitam and parked our private car in Kedah. And then we walked across the crossing point and rent a vehicle with a group guide trip group. The car was driving growing faster along the highway, I guessed about 140km per hour. The next morning, we woke up earlier and joined a trip to the sea in Maya Bay.
We have joined the scuba diving travel with some foreigners. There are a lots of coral reefs and sea fish under the sea, we were impressed with the beautiful picturesque in the sea.
This serial heroin topic was talking about a person who is able to travel through multiverse. In order to transverse to different universe, a psychopath was trying to attack that girl and transferred her ability to herself but failed so many times. She was hoping to reunite with her children, but her children refused her invitation and eventually ended the evil things in the world.
There was a lot of weirdo things created in this movies, the dream walking, zombie, three eyes, the plot was fairly chaotic and messy to stand on its own. I hardly to get the meaning and points on it. The first strange movie is more interesting and catching our attention about the frustration of Doctor Strange who faced the difficult times when he lost his hands.
