2021年8月9日 星期一

How to find the qualified friendship in this virtual world?

     International cyber friends increasingly booming and prosperous in this few decades, people can make many friends if they admire the online strangers seems that is adorable, attractive, fit or even catch their eyes by surface-level briefly introduction. Here is the problem, how do we recognize the person who is not familiar with? 

    Many teenagers love to pretend more professional, self-esteem, or make themselves more blinking or bright in front of screen. They even do not care about morale, inner beauty or polite manners, they just want to show off themselves. These people do not know how to be more enthusiastic on their study, working or families, they may feel bored or dull about their living, they just want to find more exciting things in the virtual world, therefore they can make more than 200 friends in their facebook or Instagram. How could a teenager manage his time if 100 people text to him simultaneously at the same time? Why this teenagers need to bother or waste his time to read and reply their messages every day? How to produce the constructive labor or ideas in a country if all these teenagers always browse the internet instead of learning or studying the new knowledge?

    In my opinion, a person only need one or 2 friends in the real world. The real friend who will help you to grow up in some aspect of lives, no matter they are in the same education area, same working places or same neighborhood or not. Sometimes your friend can muster you up if you failed to get something, or encouraging you to make some things when you are strained. In the real world, you can keep a good or healthy relationship to share ideas, common group, or good motivation to improve your life quality. 

    To maintain a heathy relationship, each of us still need to give or share our things in mutual or equal point or level. If one is too minted or too impoverished, the another one will feel unfair about the things they share. You may need to choose who has similar level or common interest to build the equality relationship. It will get the good rule of thumb that you can get the best friend if you are willing to give or share something is valuable for you, in mutually, your best friend will feedback or respond to you at the same way.



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