In my opinion, I think it is not necessarily. I was sure that my parents were bad at explaining knowledge or education. If we relied on parents to teach children about this stuff, much more false or inaccurate information would be given. My parents were pondering to say something about how to have a newborn in a family, though they never blurted out any words about the erect penis, vagina, or masturbation. Especially in Asian countries, the parents would feel embarrassed or sinful when they talked about this topic.
The newborn story may be begun in the bible: The God formed man from the dust of the ground and breathed into his nostrils the breath of life, and man become a living soul. God then called the man Adam and later created Eve from Adam's rib...I still could not figure out what is going on with this newborn story? How in God's name had things gone so wrong? Nevertheless, my parents insisted that as we were Christian, we must restore virginity or sexual abstinence until marriage.
When I was a teen, sometimes I sneaked out from my church service time in the early Sunday morning for the sake of being alone in my room. I told my parents that I went to church for service until noon. I knew my parents hardly returned home as they were basically sending the newspaper until noon. Not all sneaking out is for a bad reason. I was trying to turn on the TV and watched porn movies or sexual TV series at that time. My heart pounded extremely fast when I saw two young beauties kissing their heads, lips, collarbone, breast, waist, etc. Every sexy gesture makes me hot and drove me more curious about sex. That is because adrenaline rush. I knew nothing about sex but I still could learn something from it. Therefore I reckoned that sex education is not mandatory but still necessary in particular circumstances, such as sexual violence. I believe that kids could find the answers by themselves.
By the way, I certainly agree to explain it in a way based on science and facts, how the bodies change and why. It can also explain all the ways to avoid pregnancy if they want to engage in sex.
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