Would I stop helping the foreigners' family?

    One day, a foreigner in my neighbourhood asked my help to find somebody to install his family's AC as he found the installing AC price is ridiculously higher than normal price. In two hours, I found the AC installer in lower price and he always help him to install an AC within two days.

    Unfortunately the AC in bedroom did not work well at all, he was so frustrated and angry about the AC installer as they were hardly slept well at night without AC. I replied that he had checked all the refrigerant and pipe line were working well but he suspected that the AC was too old and had some problems with the PCB. Even though we reported the AC vendors to come to his house but failed for several times. He started to be irritated and put his rubbish in front of his house. This bad behaviours had made us frustrated, we were trying to help them but we were conscious that there is huge gap between the truth we spoke and is in his mind to blame the one who wrecked his house's AC.

    In case I was sincere in my effort of helping them who were suffering insomnia from the scorching heat at night. My patience hearing couple of times and I was trying to comfort him. I was sincerity in self without return but the people who was misunderstanding I was protecting the AC installer. Should I help them to figure out his problem and continue asking machine vendors to fix his AC?

    I was reluctantly to help this kind of person but not for every foreigners in the down road because I still hope I could offer my help to someone.

Car accident

    There was a lot of cars parked around the neighbourhood, I circled around my neighbourhood around two times to find a suitable parking lot. Unfortunately, still lost the opportunity and there were few empty lots but in red lines, so I decided to park at the uphill parking lots. Accidentally when I backed into the right sidewall building, there was a big vase under the rear wheel of my car, and I could not see it with my right front mirror. The long scratches were obviously visible along my right front and rear door. I was not feeling well and had to leave my car uphill in improper wheel position as I afraid of second hits again.

    I called my insurance agency about if the repair cost could be returned for this kind of accident. I was so happy to hear that it could be returned. So I took photos of the crash scene and the scratches vehicle and surrounding property. The agent told me to make sure the images from different angles and capture the licence plate number of my car.

    I asked my landlord to move away the big vase from my car but it still hardly to be shifted even though we pulled it together with bare hands. Finally, we shifted it away a little bit and I drove my car to my front of house. 

    Even though is was a fender bender but it still requested to pay for over NTD$10,000, as I had collision coverage through my auto insurance, which pays to cover the auto repairs. So I do not need to pay cash for repairs. 

The invisible guest

 

The invisible guest

This mystery thriller film is the most captivating movie that I had not ever seen in Chinese or in other language. It was very brilliant and intelligence movie to make a splash in every scent, it always changed the perspective and the story twisted until the truth revealing during the conversation between the defense lawyer and the man on bait.

The story inspired us not to hit and run after accident occurred unexpectedly. Face to the music especially in the difficult times. If you lied in the first place, the more and more lies must to be created until the truth to be told.

I was so impressed about the attitude and behaviors of the victim’s parents. They must be grieved for a long time and thought multiple ways how to revenge for their son on this successful man. Based on the response from the fake defense lawyer, she must be a smart woman and practiced a lot how to allure his client into her tricks. Even though she suffered cancer attack and slept on a bed for a while, she was standing still and pretending to be prestigious attorney to cheat this murderer. Eventually, she convinced his client and got the exact position of his losing son from this cunning businessman.

At the end of this movie, the man was just realized that the woman was the victim’s mother, it was too late and he would be finally arrested by policemen due to their conversation was completely recorded to be the evidence of killing two people, respectively.

How I worked 11years in the world's leading OSAT

    When I worked in module assembly house in Hsinchu Science Park, I was in search of new jobs. It was end of 2010, and PTI was in the growing semiconductor assembly house. Little could I have known as I interviewed an appealing, and intelligent manager would get my foot in the door; that as I stepped in PTI I would be working here here for a decade.

    Still less could I have foreseen that, after serving three years of simulation experiment lab, my career would be changed to research and designer engineer.

    During my ten-year working on arrival, I watched in awe as the rapid growing in flip chip, fan out level packaging developing. And the longer I stayed in PTI, the higher paid I rewarded.

Cognitive impairment

Ten years ago, my father was targeting by several teenagers, they were spying at my dad in the early morning for weeks. They noticed that my father was single and weaponless but obviously carrying money on his money belt.  At the early morning, there was silent and nobody on the street. They hit my father badly with bat and when he was sending newspapers on his way to his clients. Unfortunately, he has been robbed at least five times during his work but nobody has been caught. Once a time, he has been sent to hospital and in a coma for several days.

According to the CT scan profile provided by psychiatric doctor, my father’s brain has the scar which has been recovered after the several hurts made by those robbers. I found that he was easily distracted by unimportant things and got stuck on an idea rather than responding to our conversations for these several years. He had the trouble of understanding our speech but rambling or nonsense speech.
He became severe after reversal his night-day sleep-wake cycles, started changing mood shifts, easily to be irritated or anger.

Delirium

Two years ago, I went back to visit my parents and sibling on Malaysia. My sister bought a new apartment in the urban city. The size of the apartment is one-third size of my old hometown terrace house in rural area. My sister assigned some construction workers to decorate the interior of her new house, and badly that the paint was sit on the surface of concrete floor. It was completely messy and we need to remove the stain in those few days. I was too much plate on my hand to rip the stains off from the ground and was not talking to my father too much. However, he was happy and sat beside us but giving us a long rambling speech.

He said that he did not want to move to new house, he would like to stay at old house until his death. He was struggling to move far from the area with being acquaintance for almost 50 years already. Unfortunately, how hard he was rejected, was my sister the various method pursuing him with relentless energy. Finally, he was forced to live there after I left my home for several days. On those days, our family dog has disappeared when my family travelling for few days. My father almost lost his sense of happiness ever since those days.
For this two years, he always trapped in a small living room and sleeping beside my mother’s. They are fighting against each other continuing in an extreme way every day. Sometimes, yelling, screaming and cursing each to die. It was very normal and we were trying to ignore this subtle problem as we were busy working and had not enough time to meddle their difficult and complicated feelings. I felt fortunate that my brother back home for this two years as he could not travel to anywhere or working overseas. Even though my mother and my sister always blamed about his ignorance, but I still could feel his responsibility when somebody needs help.
The fact that, if my mother appeared and scolding at him. He started beating my mother and knocking her door badly. Everything were thrown everywhere and random violence occurred in some complicated manners.  My older brother has been beaten hardly with a chair at midnight. Doors broken, fling goods away from home to balcony or gallery. His mental and behaviour has been changed rapidly and becomes more irritated or restless especially at midnight.
My brothers immediately sent him to the public hospital with putting a lot of energy. He was sedated after given a drug to calm him down and make him sleep. Psychiatric doctor checked his head with CT scans and suspected he may develop delirium but still need neurologist to judge it in detail.

The loss of my English teacher’s mother

    On 18th May, my teacher announced a bad news about her mother. She had a burst appendix, possibly life-threatening and required immediate surgery. However, the 88-year old who was fighting the serious infection and being sedated (anesthesia) after the surgery. She had the trouble of breathing and on a ventilator in intensive care unit. She had extreme pain and wished not to wake up again, she said goodbye to everyone come to visit her in hospital.

    After few days, my teacher still concerned her bad situation, her kidneys were weak and had blood clots in her legs. She barely opened her eyes and lifting her arms when responded to somebody asking her. He acknowledged his feelings and challenging his negative thoughts when he had a regular meeting with us. I could sense he was trying to bottle up his feelings by talking a lot funny things with us.

    On 31st May, he declared her death in peace without any stopping machine. He felt blessed that he would suffer to make decision to determine her destiny. Fortunately, God listened to him and his family as well. We knew that that he accepted the reality and believed he could get on with the next phase in his life.

    Grief is a natural response to loss, and that includes the loss of your best love. It is very great to expand a social network outside of work, meeting new people by taking a class, it could be crucial in helping you cope with the stress or anxiety.

The chaotic marriage of celebrities

    Last two weeks ago, I was blown away about the official celebrity defamation trial was published on YouTube video for free. This was my first time to know about the American laws. 

    Love is blind. After Johnny Deep separated with his long-time partner, they tied the knot immediately in 2015, but their marriage was totally haywire. They either partied or they fought. Deep was usually off traveling somewhere and did not have a lot of time to spend with his wife. He was preoccupied playing the role of the successful actor and musician. In the beginning, they thought the marriage was a romantic and happy couple. But after a year, she showed up her bruise face and ended up in the police station for the restraining order and she has filed for divorce. Social media reported that he beat her, and she loyally defended him by dating with the richest billionaire in the world.

    After few year trial in UK, USA and Australia, Deep lost his million-dollar job for the accusation from me too movement. In hindsight, we have realized that the problem was Amber Heard had a horrendous temper when she drank too much. Physically, obviously she hit Johnny Depp seriously, running to him and yelling him badly, and then he almost afraid of her, escaping her as far as possible.